·         Pushed/shoved you

·         Held you down and kept you from leaving or getting up

·         Restrained you

·         Bitten you

·         Kicked you

·         Punched you

·         Slapped you

·         Poked you

·         Strangled you

·         Tripped you

·         Pinched you

·         Squeezed you

·         Hit or punched you once, twice, or repeatedly, which may or may not have resulted in visible physical injury

·         Thrown objects at you that may or may not have hit you

·         Banged your head against the wall

·         Locked you in or out of your house

·         Abandoned you in dangerous places

·         Refused to help you (for example, to get medical help when you were sick, injured, or pregnant)

·         Locked you in a room or a closet

·         Deprived you of sleep

·         Bumped into you

·         Forced you or the children to ride in a car while that person was driving dangerously

·         Forced you off the road or kept you from driving

·         Pushed you out of the car

·         Pulled your hair

·         Dragged you

·         Pulled your arms, legs or other body parts

·         Thrown you down or against a wall

·         Thrown you down the stairs

·         Ripped your clothing

·         Raped you

·         Threatened you with a weapon

·         Used a weapon on you

·         Hit or beat you with other objects

·         Stabbed or cut you

·         Burned you

·         Twisted your arm

·         Forced you to participate in violent rituals

·         Physically abused you as a child

·         Kidnapped you

·         Suffocated you

·         Bent your fingers backwards

·         Spit on you

·         Grabbed you

·         Told gender-biased jokes or said negative things about you based on your gender

·         Treated you as a sex object

·         Acted like he or she owns you

·         Accused you of being sexual with others

·         Insisted that you dress more sexually than you wanted or criticized how you dress

·         Said negative things about your body

·         Criticized your appearance

·         Put down your feelings about sex

·         Criticized your sexual past; blamed you if you had been sexually abused in the past or as a child

·         Criticized you sexually (for example, called you frigid)

·         Insisted on touching you sexually when you did not want to be touched - either when you two were alone or with other people around

·         Forced you to mimic or watch pornography

·         Called you a whore or a slut

·         Withheld or made you beg for sexual affection

·         Made you strip when you did not want to-when you two were alone or when others were around

·         Said you were inadequate in bed

·         Forced you to become pregnant

·         Beat you if you refused sex

·         Brought other women home

·         Bragged about his infidelity

·         Openly showed sexual interest in other people when you were in public or at home (for example, while watching TV)

·         Had affairs (often bragging about them) after agreeing not to have sex with anyone else

·         Forced you to have sex

·         Raped you

·         Made you have sex with other people

·         Forced you into prostitution

·         Forced you to make pornographic films

·         Made you watch other people having sex

·         Made you perform sexual acts you did not want to do

·         Made you have sex after physically or emotionally abusing you

·         Made you have sex when you were sick or when it was bad for your health

·         Hurt you with objects or weapons while having sex

·         Committed cruel sexual acts

·         Made you pose for sexual photographs

·         Made you have sex with animals

·         Forced distasteful sex acts on you

·         Sexually abused you as a child

·         Made constant sexual demands

·         Didn’t care about your pleasure

·         Withheld sex from you

·         Ignored your feelings or made fun of them

·         Put down women as a group (for example, called them crazy, emotional, stupid)

·         Withheld approval, appreciation, or affection to punish you

·         Constantly criticized and called you names

·         Told you nothing you do is ever good enough no matter what you do or how hard you try

·         Yelled and screamed at you

·         Insulted friends or family, driving them away

·         Put you down in front of others

·         Told you others didn’t like you

·         Kept you from working or going to school, controlled your money, made all the decisions, demanded that you ask permission to do or have anything

·         Didn’t let you use telephone, censored your mail

·         Refused to work or share money

·         Taken away car keys or money

·         Destroyed, sold, or given away things that were important or of value to you

·         Kept you from talking to or seeing your family or friends

·         Embarrassed you in front of others

·         Created crises so you had to pay attention to him

·         Made constant demands on your time

·         Didn’t allow you to have any privacy

·         Destroyed belongings important to you

·         Physically withdrew from you

·         Didn’t talk to you – gave you the silent treatment

·         Living with his alcoholism/drug abuse

·         Always had to agree with his opinions

·         Only allowed to see his friends, never mine

·         Made you do everything, even when sick

·         Punished or kept things from the children when angry at you

·         Treated the children extra nice, leaving you out, when angry at you

·         Threatened to kidnap the children if you ever left

·         Blamed you for any problems, real or made up, with the children

·         Threatened or actually abused pets to hurt you

·         Bragged about affairs to hurt you

·         Accused you of having affairs

·         Tried to control you with lies or contradictions

·         Tried to control you with emotions (for example, threatened to commit suicide if you left)

·         Told you it was your fault when a person physically or sexually abused you - that you asked for it, deserved it, or liked it

·         Denied that the behavior is abusive or minimized it by calling you crazy or stupid or telling you that you made it up

·         Made you lie about how injuries occurred

·         Threatened to tell, or told your employer or family that you are a lesbian in order to get you fired or to have your children taken away

·         Threatened to use weapons to harm you, or to kill you or the children

·         Threatened to hurt family or friends

·         Threatened to hurt or kill himself

·         Made you worry about his next step

·         Couldn’t tell when he’d be nice or mad

·         Stalked you

·         Taken your money

·         Controlled your checkbook

·         Put all the bills in his name

·         Hidden assets from you

·         Didn’t allow you to have any money

·         Prevented you from acquiring adequate clothing

·         Sold your property

·         Made you account for every dime

·         Destroyed your belongings

·         Refused to work

·         Never gave you enough money for bills

·         Forced you to write bad checks

·         Spent money on his needs before family needs

·         You were not allowed to go to school or work

·         Made you go to work

·         Spent money on drugs and alcohol

·         Forced you to commit robberies

·         Yelled at you

·         Called you names

·         Nagged at you

·         Called you racial slurs

·         Put down because of your gender

·         Cussed at you

·         Called you stupid

·         Told you no one else would want you

·         Talked to you as a child

·         Threatened to kill you

·         Threatened to hit or hurt you

·         Put down your family

·         Put down your appearance

·         Belittled important things you did

·         Threatened to take kids

·         Constant phone calls

·         Told you you were crazy/stupid/ugly/dumb

·         Accused you of being an alcoholic/drug user

·         Told the kids they didn’t have to listen to you or respect you